Nowadays young people feel it not easy to obey the rules from the society. Not only because they are facing with much stress from their work,family and growing population,but they must confront with regulations whether in written or unwriten forms.
However,i am not be in favour of this point of view.,and my reasons and examples will be mentioned as following.
The first example i should stressed is job hunting. It is quite impossibe to get a decent work in the past if you fail to open back door. (try to find social relations to make the job availble). Things are different if you have sufficient ability and could depend on yourself and then you can enjoy the fair job hunting enviroment.We can see that young people from poor families also stand a equal opportunity no matther what their states are.
Second aspect comes from marriage. In my country, it is incredible for a couple to be married without sharing different status in the level of wealth, job position,and social realtions.However, such condition has been changed due to the introduction of free  marriage. Two young couples can date,decide,and choose freely what they are considering suitble for each other without taking some elemrnts metioned above into account.
Thirdly, It is has something to do with edcucation. More than a decade ago,  It became the accepted fact that someone must pass the college entrance exam if they want to continue finishing. For most students who live in some rural areas and cannot receive the educational resources whether in teachers,facilities and chances. Great changes have taken place since the introduction of life-long concept with various teaching and learning forms. Teachers and students can take part in the teaching-and learning activities without any limitations of time amd place
From what have been taked above, we can safely draw a conclusion that for young people  we can live in equal ,free,and harmonious society without too much strict rules and as the old saying goes where there is a will , there is away.